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Sunday, April 30, 2006

This is not about emo.

I got this off Darnie's blog. I never post about online quizes nor do I spend time to take them in the first place but this one is different. Knowing your own love language as well as your partner's is really quite important, I believe. I am not sure how accurate this quiz might be in determining your love language but at least its a start.

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Words of Affirmation.

Complete set of results

Quality Time:  10
Words of Affirmation:  8
Physical Touch:  7
Acts of Service:  3
Receiving Gifts:  2


Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

Take the quiz

I have always hardly ever been in touch with my emotions as a kid. Pretty much all IQ no EQ. You can imagine the kind of things that I would try to do in a relationship, trying to rationalize emotions. I'm not afraid to admit, I still am rather dysfunctional in that aspect. I guess we learn to better ourselves as we grow and to hopefully make amends for whatever that was lacking before.

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